The beauty of creating and living the Ultimate Lifestyle is that we become the master of our own time and lives, so personally, when I need a break, for whatever reasons, I can, and that is one of the most liberating feelings in the world and something I truly wish for you to experience also.
Of course living the Ultimate Lifestyle is so satisfying and fulfilling that feeling like I need a break rarely happens, in fact, this is the first time I have felt like I need a break since the concept of the Ultimate Lifestyle was born in 2005, but obviously when stars collide and life is intent on teaching us a lesson in humility, then these are the occasions that may warrant a little interlude.
It is the major differentiating factor between the “Traditional Lifestyle” vs the “Ultimate Lifestyle”. The “Traditional Lifestyle” demands that we soldier on, regardless of our personal affairs, state of emotional well being and happiness, but the “Ultimate Lifestyle”, the lifestyle that we choose to create and live, is our own personal creation. We decide how we spend our days and have the freedom to move in rhythm with life’s idiosyncrasies.
While we focus on living a great life, dealing with the the bad is just as much apart of life as dealing with the good and can not be avoided, so while it is important not to wallow in our own self pity, feel sorry for ourselves, or let the event which is causing us stress and hardship to excuse us for being lazy, the difficult times are an opportunity for us to simply acknowledge, understand and appreciate the causal factors behind our grief and then honoring ourselves by taking a break to heal and move on, without the additional pressure of time restrictions short-cutting your recovery schedule.
When we create our best life, our Ultimate Lifestyle, we are essentially an artist and our life is our work of art, our master piece. Every aspect of our life is a creative endeavor originating from a flash of inspiration in our mind, so when tougher times arise and we are distracted and stressed by unexpected events, then it is best to stop pursuing our ambitions momentarily because it is imperative that we feel good when creating our best life. We need to be connected with our dreams and aspirations at all times because our dreams and aspirations are the guiding force in every decision we make, sculpting our best life one decision at a time. Our mind, body and soul need to be aligned and focused on all our projects intended to help us create our best life, otherwise we will be creating with negative energy which is an undesirable circumstance to work under and one that does not ensure our finest, most authentic efforts.
Once we have dealt with the trials gracefully and the lesson has been learned, then we can objectively reevaluate our goals and directions and the methods we are using to achieve them, then refocus on creating and living our best life with renewed passion and purpose, excited about the future and will be happy and grateful about all the challenges life provides to help us grow and become wiser.
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This point has lot of weight in the article that The beauty of A Quest for an Ultimate Lifestyle is that you are the master of your own time and life, so you decide when you get to take time off, or time out…….
it’s so what I am dealing with right now! I need a time out, to figure out what’s my ultimate lifestyle..because now I am on the edge of going under…that’s coming out of getting sick, or having a burn out… don’t know how, but it’s needed!!!thanks for the insights, the only thing I need now is the guts…and feeling less guilty…