Young Ladies : Be the MASTER of Your Own Destiny!
Ladies, I beg of you to be the master of your own destiny.
Enjoy your youth! Do not let your freedom be imposed on by untimely relationships. Boys come and go, and so does your teens and 20’s. Do not get attached and fall in love so easily. Understand that the large majority of young men are only interested in sex – not you, your personality or your soul. Do not be offended ladies, just save yourself the heartache and be wise to the game. Come back to them when they are older, more mature and content to love just one woman.
Do not waste your time chasing boys. You have your entire life ahead of you and you deserve to experience the best of life and to be happy. Be smart, discover and unleash your confidence and love of life, have fun, be kind – to yourself and others, follow your heart and stand up for what you believe in. Strive to be financially independent. Use your youth to lay the foundation for your Ultimate Lifestyle and the rest of your life. Be your own best friend. There is nothing more attractive than a confident, happy and independent woman. Let the men come to you.
While you should fully enjoy and take advantage of your youth, you also need to stay smart and alert to protect the sanctity of your freedom, the quality of your life and your happiness.
It is imperative that you take care of whom you share your bed with. DO NOT make the mistake of getting pregnant to the wrong man! There is nothing more devastating. Take full ownership of your own birth control needs. DO NOT play with fate on this one ladies, you will only get burned.
You see, by the very design of nature, life is a different series of events for men. Men have the option of taking the easy route out, they can get you pregnant and then walk away, refusing to support or have contact with you and your unborn baby; leaving you to pick up the shattered pieces of your life. The choice between termination or of being a single mother will be a soul destroying decision. Do not let this happen to you.
You deserve all the great things life has to offer and you are the ONLY person in this world who has the power to ensure, through your decisions and actions, that your right to this wonderful life is protected.
Once you have lived and outgrown your heedy youth and start to feel that maternal pull then choose a man who will support you emotionally, physically and spiritually. You want an amazing father for your children, one who takes responsibility for his role and has it in his heart to love you and your children unconditionally, one capable of controlling his temper and whom will never raise a fist to you. Choose a man with a big heart and smile because remember, as you grow old with this man, looks will inevitably fade and it will be his heart and smile which keeps you company.
NEVER choose a man for his money. This will only lead to a controlling relationship. He will eventually treat you as a possession and an object to be brought. He will never respect you or see you as his equal. Choosing a man based on his wealth is just another form of prostitution, but do not choose a POOR man either! Beware of partnering with a man with NO ambition or goals for a better life, or a man harboring bitter and negative attitudes. This man will only pull you down like a chronic depression and limit the full potential of your best life.
Instead have some self respect and be smart – have your own money, create a life where you have your own financial resources and income streams so you remain the master of your freedom; this will allow you to be there to watch your children grow and to be in a relationship for the love, not for the dependency of financial security.
Be determined to follow this path. You may not know how you are going to make it a reality, but you will find that as life progresses, your pure determination will influence your decisions and actions and ultimately lead you to your best life goals.
Be smart, be strong and enjoy your life ladies!
Good luck!
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